but more about what’s right vs. right!
The most difficult decision to make is in which there are two values that you deeply believe that are in conflict with each other.
Think about this. What is right vs. wrong is pretty obvious. If it is not obvious, you have more work to do that can be shared here. The real tough decisions now are when two values that you deeply believe in are in conflict with each other. Now what do you do? How do you do it? And what tools, techniques, different training do you need to handle these tough decision.
For example: Truth vs. loyalty. How do you handle a situation when you want the truth and the person is loyal to someone or something else? What insights, techniques are available to help discern the process to make the best decision?
Or how about justice vs. mercy, what is your criteria for justice, mercy? Justice according to what, the law, code of ethics, values statement, mission statement or?? Mercy, based on what? How transparent are you as to which one you chose? If you’re not transparent, why not?
What is crucial here is that one needs to truly know what values one believes and has internalized BEFORE a situation occurs, so that there is no hesitation about what needs to do done, when it needs to be done and why it needs to be done.